Meeting an Escort
Be cautious upon arrival. When you arrive at an in-call location, look around. If you see anything suspicious (lots of people walking around, doing maintenance or clean-up, watching you), or get a weird feeling, just walk away. Remember that most hotels do their housekeeping early in the day, and maintenance is rarely done at night. Be safe and smart.
Take your wallet out, and hide it in your car. Do this before you arrive at the location? You don’t want a nefarious person seeing you do this. Only take your cell phone, cash and keys with you. If you have a spare wallet, use that one. You never know if the escort will rip you off and steal your valuables.
Display your money to the escort. When you get inside her in-call location, show her you have the agreed upon amount, and place it clearly on a nightstand or table. This money is only for her time (not for any illegal services). Do not attempt to exchange sex for money. It is against the law.
Check the escort’s legal status. Ask her if she is at least 18, and make sure she has a license to practice escorting in the state that you are in. If she does not answer yes to both of those questions then you are breaking the law. It could be a police officer, or an underage trafficker.
Clean yourself up, if asked. Some escorts may ask you to wash your hands, or even take a shower. Taking a shower could mean she might leave with your money while you’re not looking, so you can say you just took one (you should anyway, before and after). It’s less likely an established escort will run off with your money, so keep that in mind when you’re picking a new girl with no reviews or online history. You may be able to take the cash into the bathroom with you, she may or may not get offended at this. Take your wallet, cell phone and keys into the bathroom.
Get comfortable. Once she sees your donation and knows you’re serious, she should have no problem undressing for you, which is a legal adult activity. However, state laws vary as to what is deemed legal and illegal. Make sure you look up your state’s escort and sex laws beforehand to make sure.
Use escort lingo while talking. Escorts are very careful about how they talk about money, sex, dating etc. They will use code words like “donations” or “girlfriend experience.” Make sure that when you are talking you also use code words. Never come right out and ask for sex, or a sexual act. Use terms like “get comfortable” or “get to know you.”
Leave immediately when your experience is over. This is important, because you do not want the escort to steal your belongings while you are asleep. You also want to leave the in-call location, and move your car, so that no one you know finds out. Remember to leave at different times than your escort. You do not want to leave together.